Saturday, March 19, 2011

Why beauty salons are still a loss making business in Chennai?

Phew! This is a controversial topic but I always wanted to write on this. As a woman who has lived in the northern metros or even small towns, one would come and wonder why beauty salons in Chennai are so costly?

In my last three adventurous years in Chennai, I have found some peculiar facts about the concept of beauty, fashion, and similar terms in Chennai:

  1. It seems that my mom's generation of Chennai women haven't been to beauty parlors mostly apart from getting bridal make-up, not even regular visits for eye-brows.
  2. On one of my first days in Chennai, at Tidel Park. I was waiting near the entrance for my friend, where I saw women who seemed like office goers, wearing the most unpleasant and dull shades like worn out mustard color, electric shocker blue and fluorescent green, stitched by tailors who would have been doing some side- business apart from stitching shirts and trousers.
  3. Couple of years ago, I saw an episode of Neeya Naaana (a debate show), where some girls who looked like they have been busy studying for medical entrances, talking about how college girls in Chennai should be ashamed of adopting western culture and wearing jeans and dressing up to college. They were almost reinstating our great Rajnikanth's dialogs on how women should only dress in a sari and be virtuous and kind.... (What the  #*$*)
  4. In my old office and the present one too, If I have to make a guess, 1/5th of the women population frequent parlors and believe in the concept of dressing up.
  5. Many new parlors are positioning themselves as uni-sex salons, that it is hard to find  all-women salons in Chennai.


Apart from all this (from my experience), if you are a women who loves to dress up and make sure your accessories perfectly sync, then be prepared to get weird stares from  men and angry stares from women.
Here is a political angle to it. But this aspect is being quite boldly commercialized by the recent soap TVCs, especially the Vivel soap ads of Sumar Susi and Dull Divya. I really dont know how the tamil public, especially women are taking to these ads. but then it is worth the wait and watch!


Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Some memorable quotes from movies

Over the last year, I have seen so many amazing movies. So I thought of collecting some quotes from these movies. Courtesy IMDB :)

Up in the air
Natalie tries to convince Ryan on relationships.
Natalie Keener: How about just not dying alone?
Ryan Bingham: Starting when I was 12, we moved each one of my grandparents into a nursing facility. My parents went the same way. Make no mistake, we all die alone.

Natalie talks to Alex about her ex-boyfriend.
Alex Goran: What a weasly prick.
Natalie Keener: Yeah, but what does that make me? Someone who falls for a prick.
Alex Goran: We all fall for the prick. Pricks are spontaneous, they're unpredictable and they're fun. And then we're surprised when they turn out to be pricks.

Escape from Sobibor
Just a conversation in the morning line for breakfast in a holocaust prison camp.
Leon Feldhendler: Did you know that tomorrow is the beginning of Sukkot?
Lt. "Sasha" Pechersky: Yes. 'Tis a Holy Day.
Leon Feldhendler: I forgot. And my father was a rabbi.
Lt. "Sasha" Pechersky: They kill on Holy Days. Why not the other way around? God will forgive.
Leon Feldhendler: There are those here who are wondering if we can forgive God.

The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
Benjamin Button: Your life is defined by its opportunities... even the ones you miss.

Narrator: Daisy and her friend would've crossed the street, and the taxi would've driven by. But life being what it is - a series of intersecting lives and incidents, out of anyone's control - that taxi did not go by, and that driver was momentarily distracted, and that taxi hit Daisy, and her leg was crushed.

Mrs. Maple: Benjamin, we're meant to lose the people we love. How else would we know how important they are to us?

500 days of Summer
Tom: It's these cards and the movies and the pop songs, they're to blame for all lies and the heartache, everything.

Narrator: Most days of the year are unremarkable. They begin, and they end, with no lasting memories made in between. Most days have no impact on the course of a life. May 23rd was a Wednesday.

Lovely Bones
This is a very beautiful story of a girl who gets murdered and goes through the process of forgiving her killer.
Susie Salmon: There was one thing my murderer didn't understand; he didn't understand how much a father could love his child.

Susie Salmon: I was in the blue horizon between heaven and earth. The days were unchanging and every night I dream the same dream. The smell of damp earth. The scream no one heard. The sound of my heart beating like a hammer against cloth and I would hear them calling, the voices of the dead. I wanted to follow them to find a way out but I would always come back to the same door. And I was afraid. I knew if I went in there I would never come out.

Susie Salmon: [voiceover] When my mother came to my room, I realized that all this time, I had been waiting for her. I had been waiting so long, I was afraid she wouldn't come.
Holly: [whispering] I love you, Susie.

(Last line of the movie)
Susie Salmon: [voiceover] Nobody notices when we leave. I mean, the moment when we really choose to go. At best you might feel, a whisper or the wave of a whisper, undulating down. My name is Salmon, like the fish. First name: Susie. I was 14 years old, when I was murdered on December 6th 1973. I was here for a moment, and then I was gone. I wish you all, a long, and happy life

Little Manhattan
Its 10 year old cute Gabe talking about his crush!
Gabe: It's amazing how quickly time moves. Just yesterday, I thought I loved her, but now, I don't even care about her at all.

Gabe: Is there anything worse than dress shopping? I would rather have my toenails peeled off one by one with pliers than spend five minutes in the dress store.

And hey, do let me know if I missed some amazing quotes from other movies!

Saturday, March 5, 2011

What creates history after all?

The Arab world unrest has become so popular in the last two months that even people around me who do not keep themselves updated, are aware. But what started it? Seems like a young guy in Tunisia set himself on fire, when the local police confiscated the fruits and vegetables he sold because he didn't have a permit. What is even more amazing is how one man's actions can create a ripple across nations.


This is like going back to the World War's history to check what triggered the war, and we find out that it was due to the assassination of some Archduke, heir to the Austro-Hungarian throne. The world has seen so much since then.


Coming back to the Arab world, it is quite surprising to see that people power does exist in this part of the world. One interesting aspect of the whole uprising of the "Jasmine revolution" as quoted in Economist's articles, is that the "Al-Qaida" angle is missing here. This part of the world is always torn between the political elite group appeasing the western powers and and old-school fanatics arousing religious extremism. A public sentiment rejecting both of these and voicing for a democratic government is something very new. 


But another view, would be that the Arab world was a very peaceful region centuries ago with rulers who were tolerant to religious minorities and  ethnic minorities like Jews and Romanis (gypsies). During the 1500 to the 1800s when Jews were persecuted all over Europe with mass murders, they led a peaceful life the Ottoman regime. 


But in the last century, when most of the world had chosen between democracy and communism, the Arab world is torn between dictatorship and monarchy. The present events will determine, whats the future in this part of the world.